to buy for the baby. She lives with her boyfriend, who makes an hour. They drive a brand new car. This is the deal. He says wait and see what everyone buys for them when they have a baby shower. I tell them, don’t wait for everyone else, start planning now. He basically expects me and his mother to buy everything they need. thing is, I also have a 7 year old and I’m diabetic, have no health insurance, and even though I’m not broke, I can’t afford to supply everything they want. And I have told my daughter time and again to start saving for a crib, car seat, etc. Instead the spend on big TV’s and GPS for their car. I have decided I will buy ONE big ticket item, most likely a car seat/ stroller combo. But how do I get through to these kids that I am not going to be responsible for buying stuff and I do not want to be a convienient babysitter? I have a full-time job and 7 year as well. I don’t want to make them mad and never see my grandchild.
I offered to pay half for a whole set of good used baby furniture someone was selling in our area for 0, I saw it and it was all great stuff, clean and safe, but they turned their noses up at it, because it "wasn’t new".. Like they can afford to be so picky…
I really wish they would save money, she works too, they can do it, I try to tell them, but I really don’t want to hear the whining when they get hit with reality after the baby is born… Why won’t they listen to me?
Thanks so much everyone, for your opinions. I have a hard time saying "no" when it comes to kids, and animals. As far as money, she always complains they are broke.. and it irritates me.. I know it shouldn’t, but she is my daughter and I want what’s best..
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